I follow a blog called Awakening Women and they had the greatest post last night I wanted to share.
It's about not being possitive. I personally think that sometimes we worry about being possitive so much, that we forget the value of being negative. I know it sounds counter productive but Toko-pa Turner outlines the benefits so wonderfully here:http://awakeningwomen.com/2010/12/13/owning-your-destroy/
I find it so very refreshing to be reiminded that sometimes you really should embrace your inner bitch. :)